COURSE 2
Child-Centered Co-Parenting
Two Homes, One Team
The playbook for the partnership your kids need you to build - long after the papers are signed.
The decisions are made. The MSA is filed. The court is done with you. But now you're inside the version of family that comes next — two homes, two routines, two sets of rules, and a co-parent you have to keep working with for the next ten, fifteen, twenty years.
The legal piece is the easy part. The everyday is where the work lives.
This course is built for the parent who knows that the way you talk to your co-parent, the way you handle exchanges, the way you respond when your kid complains about the other parent, and the way you set up holidays for the next decade —all of it shapes the version of family your kids will carry into adulthood.
You don't have to figure this out alone. You don't have to guess.
Most Parents Think the Hard Part Ends When the Papers are Signed.
If any of these sound like you — you're in the right place.
Who This Course Is For
Ten self-paced modules. The playbook for two homes, one team.
What’s Inside
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Module 1 names the shift most co-parents skip — from the marriage that's ending to the partnership your kids need you to build. We walk you through the identity work, the language change, and the mental shift that makes everything else possible. You're not exes navigating logistics. You're parents running a team across two homes.
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Module 2 is the operating system for every text, every email, every exchange. We go deep on the nine guideposts that change the temperature of every interaction — BIFF, tone, response time, organization, what to do when a message comes in hot. By the end, you'll have scripts and a framework for the conversations that used to wreck your day.
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Module 3 is the boundary work most co-parents are missing. Not the "no contact" kind. The "this is what I will and won't do" kind. We walk you through boundaries with your co-parent, your kids, your extended family, and your new relationships — boundaries that actually serve everyone, not just protect you.
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Module 4 takes the plan you built in court and shows you how to actually live inside it. The everyday rhythms. The handoffs. The decisions that come up when the document doesn't quite cover it. The mindset shifts that make a rigid-looking plan feel flexible — and a flexible plan feel safe.
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Module 5 is the everyday choreography of two-homes-one-team. The Sunday night handoff. The Christmas morning split. The birthday call. We give you frameworks for the big moments and the small ones — the rituals, the language, the buffer time that makes hard transitions easier on everyone, including you.
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Module 6 is where most co-parents say they're doing the work — and where most kids would tell you otherwise. We walk you through what "keeping kids out of the middle" actually looks like in practice. The questions you stop asking. The messages you stop sending through them. The loyalty binds you stop creating without knowing it.
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Module 7 is the single highest-leverage habit in all of co-parenting. When your child complains about the other parent, what you say next either protects them or puts them in the middle. We walk you through the difference between validating and commiserating — with real scripts for the moments you'll face this week.
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Module 8 is for the parent doing the work alone. We walk you through what to do when your co-parent refuses to participate — high-conflict dynamics, alienation, refusal, withdrawal. You can't make them change. We help you do the work that protects your kids anyway.
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Module 10 is the work that keeps showing up — long after the divorce is signed. How to handle schedule changes as kids grow. When to revisit the plan. How to come back to the practices when you've drifted. Co-parenting isn't a destination. It's a practice. We show you how to keep doing it well, year after year.
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Module 9 is a sneak peek at Course 3 and the long game. When to introduce a new partner. How. What role they should play in your kids' lives. How to navigate your kids' relationships with your co-parent's new partner. The brand new family that's forming alongside the one that ended.
What’s Included
The 19 Resources Inside
Who Built This
Not theory. Built by the people who do this work every day.
We are moms, therapists, and divorce experts on a mission to help families keep children in the center, not in the middle of divorce.
We specialize in helping parents shift from conflict to calm — supporting you in building a healthier co-parent dynamic rooted in respect, structure, and child-centered decision-making. Through practical tools, real-life strategies, and ongoing support, we help you build a co-parenting approach that actually works long-term — not just in theory.
If you've ever drafted a text to your co-parent three times before hitting send, replayed a hard conversation in your head, or just want things to feel less heavy for you and your kids — you're in the right place. We've been there. We get it. We can help.
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Two ways to start. Pick what fits.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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No. Course 2 stands on its own. That said, if you're still in the first three months of a divorce — or about to be — we recommend starting with The First 90 Days first. Course 2 is built for parents who are past the early stabilization phase and ready to build the long-term partnership.
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Parents in the first three months of a divorce — or about to be. Whether you're a few days in or a few weeks in, the course is designed to meet you where you are and walk you through every decision that matters in the early months. If you're further along, Course 2 may be a better fit.
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Yes. Module 8 is specifically for parents whose co-parent refuses to engage, is high-conflict, or is undermining the relationship. We give you tools that work in adversarial dynamics, including parallel parenting frameworks. If safety is a concern, please also work with a licensed family law attorney and therapist.
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Roughly 4–6 hours of video lessons (broken down into 8-20 minute modules), plus downloadable worksheets and tools. Most parents work through it over 2–4 weeks, but you can move at any pace that fits your life. You have lifetime access — there's no deadline.
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We recommend it for the first time through — each module builds on the one before, and the order matches the order the decisions typically come up. But once you've finished it, you can return to specific modules and tools any time something new surfaces.
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No. This course is educational and practical — designed to give you tools, frameworks, and a clear plan. It is not a substitute for individual therapy, mental health care, or legal advice. We strongly recommend pairing the course with a therapist and a licensed attorney for your specific situation.
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That's actually most of our clients. You don't need your co-parent on board to make a real difference. Most of the work — your communication, your regulation, your decisions — is yours alone to do. And the impact on your kids comes from how you show up, whether or not your co-parent ever does.
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You'll be able to schedule a 60-minute private session with a Co-Parent Collective coach. Use it whenever it'll move the needle most — before you start, partway through, after a specific module, or when something hard comes up. We'll meet you where you are.
The everyday is where the work lives. Your kids don't need a perfect co-parent. They need a parent who keeps showing up — steady, present, and grounded — through every season of this. We can help you be that parent.